As I was going through some notes today, I realized that I had never written here about an incident that happened to me several years ago. I think it may explain why I’m so bent on bashing these so-called parents who take their kids along on their little shoplifting expeditions.
I was working as a loss prevention supervisor for a large retail chain at the time. I was watching the store’s cctv system when I noticed two females grabbing anything and everything they could. Without checking size, price, or anything else, they were shoving loads of apparel into two shopping carts.
In one of these carts was a small child, about 3 years old. I continued to watch until I was pretty sure these two were going to steal my stuff. I called the store manager and told him I needed him up front. He came up and I met him just outside my office. I discreetly pointed the pair out to him, and he stepped outside to assist when I went to make the stop. I continued to observe these two stuff over $3000.00 worth of our merchandise into these carts. Then they headed straight for the door, without even attempting to conceal the merchandise in any way. As they stepped out the door, I approached them both, and the store manager stepped up at the same time.
That’s when everything went wrong. The mom of the little girl gave her cart a push, out into the parking lot, with the little girl still sitting in the cart. Of course, I ran out to stop the cart before it could tip over or get hit by a vehicle passing through the lot.
Meanwhile, the two shoplifters ran to their vehicle and started it up. By the time I got to the child and stopped the cart, the store manager was there with me. He took the child from the cart and proceeded back to the store to call police.
At this point, you would think that this mom would stop to get her child, but she didn’t. Instead, while the store manager and I were saving her child, she pulled up to the second cart, and with her car engine running, was trying to load the merchandise from that cart to her car.
I ran up to the car, reached inside the driver side window, turned the car off, and took out the keys. At this point, I told her that she would have to come inside. She cursed me and said “We’ll walk”. When I asked her about the child, she said that she would get her back later, and she and her accomplice proceeded to walk away.
I followed them while the store manager called police. I knew we had a “no touch” policy, but I had already bought myself disciplinary action by reaching into her vehicle. Plus, I was downright angry at this point. So, I did what I knew I shouldn’t have done. I grabbed her up and locked her arms behind her. I then escorted her to our sidewalk and stood her against the wall, face-first. Her friend followed, although I’m not sure why.
Within seconds, police arrived. They listened to our account, watched our video, including the incident outside, and then proceeded to write her a summons on the spot and release her, along with her baby.
So, I got written up for “breaking the rules”, and she got charged with larceny. It was a long time ago, but it still eats at me everytime I read or hear about some parent who puts their child in danger by taking them shoplifting. This so-called mom was prepared to leave her daughter with us to escape getting a citation.
I’d like to say that, were this to happen today, I would handle it differently; but I gotta tell you, I’m not sure I would.
By the way, after a review of the video in this case, my disciplinary action was removed from my file.
Anybody else want to share a similar experience?
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